Overthinking when dating is like having a movie playing in your head, except it’s a suspense thriller filled with doubt and uncertainty. You replay every conversation, analyze every text, and scrutinize every detail, trying to decipher hidden meanings. Sounds exhausting, doesn’t it? But you’re not alone. I, too, have fallen into the same overthinking trap, … Read more
Ever find yourself replaying that conversation with your boo in your head, dissecting every word for hidden meanings? Maybe you catastrophize about the future, conjuring up worst-case scenarios that leave you in a cold sweat. Yeah, me too. I know how it feels to be stuck in the land of overthinking, where your mind becomes … Read more
Replaying conversations in your head, imagining worst-case scenarios, getting all worked up about nothing— ugh! As an overthinker myself, trust me, I know the feeling. Overthinking is a common part of every relationship. But while it happens to the best of us, it can definitely cause problems between you and your partner, as it did … Read more
So, you’ve just had a first date, and now you’re back home, replaying every moment in your head, wondering if you said or did the right things. I get it, and I know the struggle. It’s easy to feel overwhelmed by a whirlwind of thoughts and emotions when you meet someone new. But here’s the … Read more
Am I overthinking or is he losing interest? There have been a couple of times I found myself asking this question. And let me tell you, trying to figure out whether he’s just busy or if there’s something more going on can drive anyone crazy. The truth is, we do tend to overthink things sometimes, … Read more
Let’s face it, breakups are the worst. One minute you’re planning your summer getaway together, the next you’re drowning in a sea of “what-ifs” and “should-haves.” That post-breakup anxiety can be brutal. I remember replaying every conversation in my head to try and figure out what went wrong. But that can’t be healthy, right? If … Read more
You know the feeling. A text back a minute later than usual. A shorter reply that leaves you hanging. Maybe even a missed call that sends your mind racing. Suddenly, the terrifying question explodes in your head: “Am I overthinking or is she losing interest?” I get it. I’ve been stuck in that same overthinking … Read more
Haven’t we all been there? You replay that conversation in your head, analyzing every text message, wondering if your partner is mad (or worse, bored!). When I noticed myself doing this, I wondered, “Can overthinking ruin a relationship?” The answer, as I have learned the hard way, is a resounding yes. Every relationship – no matter … Read more
Did you meet someone new? That’s great! Dating can be fun, but if we’re going to be honest, relationships are hard. It’s easy to get stuck in your head overthinking every text and every glance. You spend way too much time wondering, “What does this mean?” than actually enjoying getting to know them. Sound familiar? … Read more
Have you ever had your world collapse after finding out your partner cheated? Yep, been there, done that. I was 27, rocking life with confidence until my partner cheated and rewrote the script. The trust I had, not just in him, but in everyone, shattered. It even affected my amazing relationship with my now-husband! Thankfully, … Read more
