I apologized to my mother for existing until I was 35 years old. Yep! Not literally, of course. But every time she said “I’m sorry you feel that way” after calling me worthless, I thanked her. Every time she followed up her cruelty with “I’m sorry, but you bring out the worst in me,” I ... Read more
I used to think there was something wrong with me for “seeing the worst” in my family; turns out, I was finally seeing the truth. These seven perspective shifts didn’t just change how I saw my past; they completely transformed my future. The Christmas I finally said “no” to hosting after years of being the ... Read more
Growing up, I didn’t really understand what was happening to me. Why did my mother hate me so much while loving my older sister and younger brother so dearly? For years, I didn’t call it abuse, well, because I didn’t know what it was then. My narcissistic family was a pro at making me question ... Read more
I used to think time alone would heal me. But time doesn’t rebuild what my narcissistic family destroyed. My self-worth does. Rebuilding myself didn’t come from waiting. It came from one bold, unapologetic little choice at a time. Every single day! There was no dramatic moment of transformation. Just small, steady rebellions: the choice to ... Read more
You’re not crazy for feeling flipped upside down after calling out a narcissist. Trust me, I know what I’m talking about! I remember asking one calm, honest question… nothing dramatic, just clarity-seeking to my toxic mother. Within seconds, the tone shifted. I was suddenly the one being questioned. “Why are you always so difficult?” “You’re ... Read more
I used to think leaving my narcissistic family was a one-time decision. I thought that once I stopped talking to them, blocked their numbers, and unfollowed them on social media, I’d finally be free. I had no idea I’d have to leave them emotionally, mentally, spiritually… over and over again. The truth is, detachment isn’t ... Read more
I used to think narcissists, including my own family, were just cruel people… cold, calculating, and heartless. I couldn’t wrap my head around how someone could lie so easily, twist the truth, or smile while cutting you to pieces. For most of my life, I thought it was just a character flaw. Then I stumbled ... Read more
I used to waste my breath trying to explain basic decency to my narcissistic family and ex… until I realized silence (or the right quote) hits harder. The kind of quote that doesn’t beg for understanding, doesn’t argue, doesn’t explain. Just stands there, calm and clear, while their ego scrambles for control. If you’ve ever ... Read more
I used to apologize every time I said no to my toxic mother, even to my narcissistic siblings. Every. Single. Time. Like I was inconveniencing them by taking care of myself. Like, setting boundaries was something to feel guilty about. Back then, I didn’t know that “no” was a complete sentence. I thought I owed ... Read more
Narcissists wear different masks, depending on who they want to deceive. But what happens when they take them off? Here are 5 brutal confessions straight from behind the narcissist’s smile. If you’ve ever walked away from a conversation feeling like your reality just got rewritten, you’re not imagining things. Narcissists have a way of making ... Read more
