“Just be yourself.” That’s a phrase I hear a lot. It sounds simple, right? But honestly, it’s easier said than done. Luckily, I managed to figure out who I am and stay true to myself, especially growing up in a rather toxic sibling environment. My mother didn’t make it easy for me either, but I ... Read more
You know what’s something pretty personal but probably hits home for many of you? Dealing with manipulation from a family member, especially a sister. It’s a tricky dynamic, and I’ve definitely had my fair share of navigating through it. But along the way, I’ve learned a few things that might just help you out too. ... Read more
Ever find yourself always saying “yes” to things you really want to say “no” to, especially when dealing with toxic siblings? Been there too, and let me tell you, learning the art of saying ‘no’ to toxic siblings is like discovering a superpower that can truly transform your life for the better. Growing up, I ... Read more
While some sibling relationships are filled with love and loyalty, mine reeks of toxicity. Growing up, I had to live with the constant intimidation from my older sister and younger brother, and let me tell you, it’s draining. Sometimes, I catch myself replaying past conversations and wonder if I might have said something wrong for ... Read more
Cultivating Inner Confidence Against Sibling Toxicity Cultivating Inner Confidence Against Sibling Toxicity Have you ever felt like you’re constantly walking on eggshells around your siblings, unsure of where you stand or if you’ll ever measure up? If that resonates with you, trust me, I’ve been right there beside you. Being stuck in the middle of ... Read more
Overthinking when dating is like having a movie playing in your head, except it’s a suspense thriller filled with doubt and uncertainty. You replay every conversation, analyze every text, and scrutinize every detail, trying to decipher hidden meanings. Sounds exhausting, doesn’t it? But you’re not alone. I, too, have fallen into the same overthinking trap, ... Read more
Ever find yourself replaying that conversation with your boo in your head, dissecting every word for hidden meanings? Maybe you catastrophize about the future, conjuring up worst-case scenarios that leave you in a cold sweat. Yeah, me too. I know how it feels to be stuck in the land of overthinking, where your mind becomes ... Read more
Replaying conversations in your head, imagining worst-case scenarios, getting all worked up about nothing— ugh! As an overthinker myself, trust me, I know the feeling. Overthinking is a common part of every relationship. But while it happens to the best of us, it can definitely cause problems between you and your partner, as it did ... Read more
So, you’ve just had a first date, and now you’re back home, replaying every moment in your head, wondering if you said or did the right things. I get it, and I know the struggle. It’s easy to feel overwhelmed by a whirlwind of thoughts and emotions when you meet someone new. But here’s the ... Read more
Am I overthinking or is he losing interest? There have been a couple of times I found myself asking this question. And let me tell you, trying to figure out whether he’s just busy or if there’s something more going on can drive anyone crazy. The truth is, we do tend to overthink things sometimes, ... Read more
