Family bonds. Shared blood. A supposed guarantee of love and support. Yet, for my cousins, in these very ties lie a twisted truth they know intimately: the cost of growing up with a narcissistic father. My uncle, not unlike his sister (my own mother), cast a long shadow of self-absorption over his children’s lives, leaving … Read more
“Just be yourself.” That’s a phrase I hear a lot. It sounds simple, right? But honestly, it’s easier said than done. Luckily, I managed to figure out who I am and stay true to myself, especially growing up in a rather toxic sibling environment. My mother didn’t make it easy for me either, but I … Read more
You know what’s something pretty personal but probably hits home for many of you? Dealing with manipulation from a family member, especially a sister. It’s a tricky dynamic, and I’ve definitely had my fair share of navigating through it. But along the way, I’ve learned a few things that might just help you out too. … Read more
Ever find yourself always saying “yes” to things you really want to say “no” to, especially when dealing with toxic siblings? Been there too, and let me tell you, learning the art of saying ‘no’ to toxic siblings is like discovering a superpower that can truly transform your life for the better. Growing up, I … Read more
While some sibling relationships are filled with love and loyalty, mine reeks of toxicity. Growing up, I had to live with the constant intimidation from my older sister and younger brother, and let me tell you, it’s draining. Sometimes, I catch myself replaying past conversations and wonder if I might have said something wrong for … Read more
Have you ever felt like you’re constantly walking on eggshells around your siblings, unsure of where you stand or if you’ll ever measure up? If that resonates with you, trust me, I’ve been right there beside you. Being stuck in the middle of a bunch of strong personalities, I often found myself struggling with the … Read more
We’ve all seen it in movies – the constant jabs, the competition that feels less playful and more like a bloodsport. But sometimes, that on-screen drama bleeds into real life. Yep, I’m talking about toxic brother relationships. In my case, it was my younger sibling. Growing up, I never quite fit the mold my narcissistic … Read more
Being the opinionated middle child that I am, I grew up stuck with the “black sheep” label while my siblings got away with everything. As it turned out, our mom’s favoritism bred toxicity, and before I knew it, both my sister and brother were pulling me down. So, yes, I know how hard it is … Read more
Ever feel like you’re winning at life, but your younger sibling just can’t seem to be happy for you? I know how that feels. Growing up, our (let’s just say, very narcissistic) mom showered my brother with praise and convinced him he’d be a superstar. Meanwhile, I got stuck being the scapegoat. Fast forward a … Read more
Growing up in a dysfunctional family can sometimes feel like you’re stuck in a drama with no off button. But my family? Let’s just say “toxic” doesn’t even begin to describe it. I’m one of three kids in a family headed by a narcissistic mother. My eldest sister and younger brother were her golden children, … Read more
