Every single thing a narcissist does to show love comes with strings attached. That’s the hard truth I wish someone had told me when I was younger, before I mistook control for care, intensity for intimacy, and chaos for chemistry. There was a time I thought I had found the one. He said all the … Read more
Betrayal cuts deepest when it comes from someone who once promised loyalty. When a narcissistic partner cheats, it feels like the ultimate rejection. It’s not just the act itself, but the message behind it, the one that says, “You weren’t enough.” But the truth often gets buried in the chaos. Their cheating had nothing to … Read more
You’ll never change a narcissist, but trying almost destroyed you. I remember sitting on the bathroom floor at 2 a.m., my back pressed against the cold tiles, waiting for him to come home after another fight. I believed if I just loved him harder, if I just endured more, maybe he’d finally see my worth. … Read more
Narcissists don’t just hurt you while you’re with them. They set traps that follow you long after they’re gone. The bruises they leave aren’t always visible. But they are tucked inside moments you can’t explain. The sudden tightness in your chest when someone raises their voice, or the urge to apologize even when you’ve done … Read more
They all use the same script. Narcissistic men, no matter the age, profession, or how charming they appear, tend to recycle the same lines. Almost word for word. It’s like they have a dusty old playbook they pass around. Each chapter is dedicated to pulling you in, keeping you hooked, and making you doubt your … Read more
I used to over-explain everything. That was so tiring, I can tell you that much. I thought if I said it the right way, softer voice, measured tone, fewer words, my family or ex would finally hear me. They didn’t. They just heard vulnerability. And they used it. Narcissists don’t listen to understand. They listen … Read more
The first time I said it out loud, my narcissistic ex’s face froze. For once, he didn’t know what to say, that was awesome, and I didn’t flinch. I dated a narcissist for six months. Not long enough to destroy me, but just enough to make me question everything I thought I knew about love. … Read more
I wasn’t the kind of woman who yelled. I was the kind who explained. Who reasoned. Who cried when reason didn’t work and cried harder when silence did. I rewrote text messages a dozen times to sound “less harsh.” I practiced softness like survival. I wanted to be understood, not feared, and not hated. I … Read more
Narcissists don’t date weak women. They date women who intimidate them, then try to break them like a collectible trophy. I learned this the hard way with Shawn. He didn’t swipe right because I looked broken or desperate. He chose me because I had my shit together, successful career, my own place, clear boundaries, the … Read more
The uncomfortable “I have something to tell you, but I don’t want to get involved” expression. “He’s been asking about you again,” she said quietly. “And about your new boyfriend.” My stomach dropped. It had been two months since I broke up with my ex. Two months since I’d discovered he’d been cheating with Melissa … Read more
